..::VU-Pink::.. Relationships Never Die Of A Natural Death !!!

How true is the saying above!! For instance take a minute and think, Have you ever ended any beautiful relationship of trust n respect for such silly reasons? Hurt them for something that doesn't matter at all?

I am sure most of us did, doesn't matter if it ended with all your consent or sometimes without. We all tend to go with the flow of the situation and end up hurting our self or others. "Situations" worse thing to describe it. I always believed relationships needs to be nurtured and cared about it for it to grow a long way ahead, just a smile to show you care, a message saying "I Love you" to show you there forever, Holding on to the stumbling relation and say " Everything will be fine " showing you will face every moment together. These small gestures can do wonders in their life, But do we come forward and do them for our loves ones without thinking if they have done anything in return for us or not.  I have seen many of them complaining that their partner doesn't care for them and hence they care a damn.... and in my mind a laugh and think - "How stupid of this person that they compare Love & Care with all these ego and attitude, Is it really worth it?

My life neither has been prefect, it had been tangled with loads of ups & down until i didn't give up my ego or you can say attitude. After few hard lessons that relationship has taught me, I now understand the depth of it. Its easy to make relations, be friends, make close relations like brothers or sisters, being a intimate partner and others. But what makes it DIE?? Is it attitude, Ego the only reasons? Each one of the reasons have their own effect but people dont understand that this will in return end up being a disaster.

I always wondered when you love a person what is it there to be insecured about them? So does that mean you don't trust your own loved ones?  You don't trust the love and respect you have for the relationship?

Relationship are not god made but human made hence it doesn't matter if you are blood related or a stranger is more than a blood related relation for you. All that matters is the care and respect for each other. That when i understood the meaning to - "Relationships Never Die Of A Natural Death !!! But they are Killed by Ego, Attitude and sometimes Insecurity"

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Ab bhala chor k Ghar kia kartay
Shaam k waqt Safar kia kartay

Teri Masroofiyatein jaante thay
Apne aane ki Khabar kia kartay

Jab Sitare he nahe mil paye
Le k hum Shams-o-Qamar kia kartay

Woh Musafir he khuli Dhoop ka tha
Saaye phaila k Shajar kia kartay

Khaak he Awwal-o-Aakhir thehri
kar k Zarray ko Johar kia kartay

Raaye pehle se he bana li Tu ne
Dil mei ab hum tere Ghar kia kartay

Ishq ne saare Saliqay bakhshe
Husn se Kasb-e-Hunar kia kartay


Parveen Shakir

Life Laugh At U When U R Unhappy......Life Smiles At U When U R Happy.....Life Salutes U When U  Make Others Happy
Easy Is To Judge The  Mistakes Of Others.............................But Difficult Is To Recognize Our Own Mistakes
It Is Easier 2 Protect UR Feet With Slipper...........................................Than To Cover The Earth With Carpet
No 1 Can Go Back And Changed A Bad Beginning................... But Any 1 Can Start Now And Create A Successful Ending
If A Problem Can Be Solved, No Need To Worry About It....................If A Problem Cannot Be Solved What Is The Use Of Worrying?

''''''''''''......Faisal Shah Din......''''''''''''
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